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#BEFORE YOU JUDGE ME PROFESSIONAL#

#BEFORE YOU JUDGE ME PROFESSIONAL#

She is passionate about helping professionals, board members, business owners, CEOs, senior executives and their teams to create exceptional personal and professional success. Her Amazon best-selling book, Stop Sabotaging Your Confidence, has also been gifted to Hollywood and Australian award winners, nominees, hosts and celebrities. Vesna is an NLP & Hypnotherapy Trainer, holds a PhD and a BEc, and has over 35 years’ business experience, including running her own successful company since 2000. Also the creator of breakthrough behavioural change techniques, Dr. Vesna Grubacevic is an author, speaker, media commentator, the founder and Performance Transformation Expert® with award-winning company, Qt. Often we judge ourselves and others based on our beliefs.ĭr. In turn, the quality of our relationships can affect our personal and professional success. How we relate to them can either sour and sabotage our relationship with them or build greater harmony and connection with them. William Shakespeare said “There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.” When we think, judge or label someone or something as bad, we see it as bad and this affects how we relate to that person, thing or situation. How we label people and their behaviour defines them in our mind it limits them and limits us in how we relate to them. Below are a few tips to help you to stop making judgements so that you can start to really get to know others, and improve your personal and professional relationships and success. You have probably heard the expression “Never Judge a Book by Its Cover”, yet some people can be quick to make judgements of others.

Are your assumptions of other people sabotaging your relationships and career/business success?.

Do you judge others or condemn them before really understanding their point of view? Or do you accept them unconditionally for who they are?.

How quick are you to pass judgement on your colleagues, manager, customers, suppliers, family and friends?.

Do you get annoyed when other people judge you before getting to know you?.

There is a thin line difference between the two, and you ought to understand it in order to make sure that you are happy and cheerful in all that you have been doing in your life.

Hence, you should count someone’s judgment only when he or she is trying to rectify your faults, and not when that person is just trying to insult or demoralize you. It simply means that he or she excels in their own niche. Perfection means that he or she is next to God. You should allow someone to judge you only when that person is perfect. There’s no point in paying any attention to them whatsoever! On the contrary, you will see people who have been talking about you all the while without focusing upon themselves. As a result, they hardly have any time to talk about you. The people who have been doing good in their own genres have been working hard day and night to improve themselves.

Well, the biggest irony of this world is that the perfect ones never judge. Let them keep talking, don’t give an ear at all. I agree you cannot stop them from doing so, but all that you can ever do is to ignore them. However, you should not allow them to cause an impact on you. They seem to be extremely quick in forming their opinions about others. People, these days, are often found to be too judgmental. You should never give your ear upon words that are often spoken by people around you.